My Blog
Resurrecting your heart
Whilst humans are emotional creatures, our modern, fast paced, disconnected world sadly teaches us to be ashamed of our feelings. Our ‘terrible two tantrums’ are often mishandled by our over-stretched and ill-equipped parents, leaving us feeling more painfully alone,...
Aren’t we all traumatized?
It could be suggested that no one in life is immune from traumatic events. Whether it’s a natural disaster, which we are hearing about more frequently on the news – floods, wildfires, cyclones and droughts, or a man-made trauma – warfare, gender-based violence,...
Why your life is a FLOP
FLOP stands for Fundamental Life Operating Program. It develops from an early age and is based upon all our life experiences. It is largely formed by the age of 18, giving a person a sense of identity, stability and predictability in an otherwise confusing and...
Caught in a wheel
We all come into this world whole creatures with great natural potential. However, we all face circumstances that largely determine the entire outcome of our lives. Culture is the petri dish in which we live and grow. To be alive is always to deal with the pervasive...
Brian Blem – Quick Biographical
Born and raised in South Africa (1964 – 1978) then emigrated with my family to Datchet in Berkshire, England, a small village west of London’s Heathrow Airport. Finished my O and A levels at Slough Grammar School, which was not the happiest of times, being a teenager...